For the praying mother who can see the curse in her family

2 reasons every praying mother should spend 40 daysbreaking the curse off her family.

By Loretta J.

You have prayed over your family for years. And if you are honest, the same thing keeps coming back. The drinking. The divorces. The same sickness at the same age. That is not a failure of faith. Nobody ever handed you the steps.

Here is what almost nobody knows. The steps are already in your Bible. In Nehemiah 9, God’s people broke what their fathers passed down in 4 steps. It Ends With Me walks you through all 4, 10 minutes a day, for 40 days.

  • All 4 steps from Nehemiah 9, in God’s order
  • Every prayer written out word for word, so you never freeze
  • Traces 4 generations back, even what nobody told you
  • 10 minutes a day, with a finish line on day 40
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A woman kneeling in prayer by candlelight as the generations of her family stand behind her and a chain lies broken at her feet

1.Your prayers were never too weak.They were missing 3 steps.

Most of us pray the same way. “Break every curse.” “Cover them under the blood.” Years go by, and the same thing comes back.

Nehemiah 9 shows why. God’s people did not just pray. They READ God’s Word. They TRACED their family line, generation by generation. They CONFESSED their sins and the sins of their fathers. Then they SEALED it in writing.

Prayer is only step 3. It Ends With Me walks you through all 4, in that order, with every prayer written out for you.

  • Read what God says about your family line
  • Trace what came down 4 generations
  • Confess your sins and your fathers’ sins
  • Seal a blessing over every grandchild by name
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2.It never goes around Jesus.Every step ends at His cross.

You know Jesus is the answer. So why does the same thing keep showing up in families that love Him? Because the cross opened the door, and you still have to walk through it.

God had already given Israel the Promised Land, and they still had to walk in. You walk through the way John said to: “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us” (1 John 1:9).

Every prayer is prayed in the name of Jesus. No law to keep. No rituals. Just confession, forgiveness and a blessing over your grandchildren.

  • Every prayer prayed in the name of Jesus
  • Every step with its verse right on the page
  • No oils, no rituals, no demon hunting
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40 days

4 generations brought it down to you.It only takes 1 woman to end it.

The Nehemiah Method

  • All 4 steps, in God’s order
  • Every prayer written out word for word
  • 4 generations traced, known and unknown
  • A finish line on day 40, signed and sealed

Praying it alone

  • Step 3 alone, with nothing before or after
  • Freezing when you don’t know what to say
  • A pattern you can feel but never named
  • 100 prayers in a row with no end

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Read. Trace. Confess. Seal. The book open to Step 2, Trace
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What it is A 40 day guided prayer book to break what came down your family line
How it works Open to the day, read 1 short teaching and pray the prayer out loud. 10 minutes
Each day 1 teaching, 1 prayer written out word for word, and its verse printed beside it
Order Read, Trace, Confess, Seal, the order God’s people used in Nehemiah 9
Time 40 days, 10 minutes a day, with a last page you sign and date
Every prayer reviewed by an ordained pastor

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Prayed by over 12,000 women

Give it 40 days. 10 minutes a day of guided prayers, every word written out for you, walking you through the 4 steps God’s people used in Nehemiah 9 to break what their fathers passed down. Read. Trace. Confess. Seal. On day 40, you sign your name under a blessing over every child and grandchild.

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Your 40 days

Days 1 to 7: ReadWhat God says about the line you came from. 10 minutes each morning.
Days 8 to 17: TraceGuided prayers walk you back 4 generations, your mother’s side and your father’s side, known and unknown.
Days 18 to 33: ConfessYour sins and the sins of your fathers, one pattern at a time, in the words Daniel and Nehemiah used.
Days 34 to 40: SealSpeak a blessing over every child and grandchild by name, then sign and date the last page.

After day 40

Keep it by your bedWhen an old pattern shows up again, open back to its day and pray it again.
Give a copy to a grown childMany women pray through it, then hand one to a son or daughter so the blessing keeps going down the line.

There is nothing to fill in but 1 page, no group to keep up with and no one who has to know. Miss a morning and the next day will be waiting for you.

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Every day gets its own page, Day 1 to Day 40, in the order of the 4 steps. Each day has the same 3 things: 1 short teaching, 1 prayer written out word for word, and the verse it comes from printed right beside it. The last page is a covenant page you sign and date on day 40, just like Nehemiah 9:38. It is a guide to prayer, not a replacement for your Bible, so you can check every verse in your own.

You pay once, with no subscription and nothing that renews. If you’re not happy any time in the next 365 days, email us and we refund every penny. No questions asked.

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The first prayer book that told me what to DO

I have read every prayer book there is, and I always quit halfway. This one is different because it tells you what to do and in what order. I read the day, I pray it out loud, and I check the verse in my own Bible. On day 40 I wrote all 7 of my grandbabies’ names on that last page and cried like a baby. I keep it on my nightstand now.

Gloria R. Mother and grandmother of 7

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Every other prayer book gives you prayers. This gives you the process God’s people used in Nehemiah 9 to break what their fathers passed down: Read. Trace. Confess. Seal. A prayer on its own is only step 3. We call the whole thing the Nehemiah Method, and It Ends With Me walks you through all 4 steps, in God’s order, for 40 days.
Straight from your Bible. Nehemiah 9:3 is the reading. Nehemiah 9:7 to 35 is the tracing, generation by generation. Nehemiah 9:2 and Leviticus 26:40 are the confession of “their sins, and the iniquities of their fathers.” Nehemiah 9:38 is the seal. Daniel prayed the same way in Daniel 9. Every prayer in the book has its verse printed right beside it, so you can check every step yourself.
You’ve seen it with your own eyes. Good, praying, saved women still watch the same thing hit their children. The Bible shows the same thing. Israel was God’s own people, and the pattern still came down until Nehemiah 9, when they stopped and did something about it. God had already given them the Promised Land, and He still told Joshua, “Every place that the sole of your foot shall tread upon, that have I given unto you.” The gift was theirs, and they still had to walk in. The cross opened the door for your family. The Nehemiah Method is how you walk through it.
Right where Paul put it. He said the Old Testament stories “happened unto them for ensamples: and they are written for our admonition” (1 Corinthians 10:11). Nehemiah 9 shows you how God’s people confessed. Jesus is the One you confess to. “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins” (1 John 1:9), and what you bring to Him, He remembers “no more” (Hebrews 8:12). There is no law to keep in this book and no rituals. Every prayer is prayed in the name of Jesus.
Ezekiel 18 describes a son whose father did wrong. Verse 14 says that son “seeth all his father’s sins which he hath done, and considereth, and doeth not such like.” Verse 17 says “he shall not die for the iniquity of his father, he shall surely live.” Look at what set him free. He SAW what his father did. He thought about it. Then he turned. That seeing is step 2 of the Nehemiah Method, Trace, and it’s the step almost every prayer skips.
Because it was never your faith. Most of us pray the prayer and skip the 2 steps God’s people did first: reading what He says about the line, and tracing what came down. One woman wrote that she prayed for healing for years “to no avail” until she confessed the sins of her forefathers. That’s the step almost every prayer leaves out. You don’t need more faith. You need the order.
No. Daniel prayed this alone in his room (Daniel 9). In Nehemiah 9, families stood up and confessed together. 1 Peter 2:9 calls you a royal priesthood, which makes you the priest of your own home. Most churches never teach this, and that’s not your fault. Now you have the steps.
You can’t choose for him. Here’s what you CAN do: close what came down through your side of the family and stand in the gap for him, the way Job rose early and prayed for each of his children. You do your part. God does His. Women tell us the first thing that changes is them. The fear lets go, and the peace comes back.
It’s not too late. Israel confessed after 70 years in exile, and God still answered. Seeing the pattern isn’t blame. It’s the start, because only the one who sees it can stop it. Your grandchildren are still growing up, and what you seal on day 40 reaches them. And if something was done TO you, hear this clearly: what was done to you is not your sin.
Most people don’t know 4 generations back. You don’t need names. The tracing prayers ask God to show you what came down, known and unknown, and they say it out loud. God knows your whole line, even the parts you never met.
No. Nobody has to know. It’s 10 quiet minutes a day between you and God. There’s no confronting anyone and no announcing anything.
No. You pay once, for the book, and that is the end of it. Nothing renews and nothing is added at checkout that bills you next month. We say it plainly because some shops selling books like this attach a monthly charge to a free extra, and buyers find out from their bank statement.
Then you get your money back. Every order comes with a 365 day money back guarantee. If you’re not happy, contact us any time within 365 days and we’ll refund every penny. No questions asked. You can’t lose money on this. The only thing you can lose is the pattern.
Yes, and many women do. They pray through it first, then give a copy to each grown child so the blessing keeps going down the line. That is why the 2 and 3 book bundles cost less per book. It also suits a daughter starting her own family, a friend from your prayer circle, or a new believer who keeps asking you how to pray for her kids.
Yes. Because everyone prays the same day together, it works well for a women’s ministry, a prayer circle or a Bible study. If you are buying several copies, email us before you order and ask about group pricing.
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